AM I FLIRTING?

In my post yesterday, I happened to mention that I was having a telephone conversation with a friend a couple of nights ago. Of course I mentioned that we had brought up the topic of nicknames. During our chat, he asked me how it felt to have so many people after me?!?! I sort of paused and then said somewhat candidly, maybe naively, "Who's after me? I don't have anyone after me?" My friend began to point out a few. My friend said, "Tony, you're such the flirt." I started to chuckle. I have never perceived myself as flirting with anyone intentionally, except for two people I can think of currently.

I really just try to be myself and have fun. I am often shy and quiet initially but once I get comfortable with someone or with my surroundings, I loosen up. Perhaps that is an allure for some individuals. If someone somehow sees that as flirting, maybe I should be flattered, maybe I should be a bit more cognizant and careful (only to ensure I don't hurt someone's feelings because they have misinterpreted my actions). I don't know ~ other than to just be myself.

I happened to stumble across this little quiz. You know I just love these little quizzes, if not for their accuracy but for the fun, light-hearted conversation they stimulate. It's a quiz on what kind of FLIRT you are. I landed a Natural Flirt response. I actually think its fairly accurate. I'd love to know what type of flirts you are so take the quiz and share the results with us in my comments section. And well, if you disagree, then speak up! Hope you all are having a great weekend.

You Are a Natural Flirt

Believe it or not, you're a really effective flirt. And you're so good, you hardly notice that you're flirting. Your attitude and confidence make you a natural flirt. And the fact that you don't know it is just that more attractive!

What Kind of Flirt Are You?